Stop hiding from your camera
and start Feeling sexy in your skin
(without Waiting until you “feel ready”)

Join Spicy Selfie School and I’ll teach you the formula to finally feeling sexy, connecting with the parts of you that you struggle to love, and creating confidence from scratch — all in the most gay & kinky ways, of course!

Stop hiding from your camera
and start Feeling sexy in your skin
(without waiting until you “feel ready”)

Join Spicy Selfie School and I’ll teach you the formula to finally feeling sexy, connecting with the parts of you that you struggle to love, and creating confidence from scratch — all in the most gay & kinky ways, of course!

Let’s get you the receipts together

 you’re hot, powerful, and worthy of being seen. 

I SEE YOU....

You’re tired of deleting every photo because “no one wants to see that.”

Tired of dressing to hide, cropping yourself out, and telling people “I’m just not photogenic.”

You’re sick of feeling awkward, unsexy, and disconnected from the body you live in every day.

And you’re so ready to feel something different.

Powerful. Present. Hot.

To finally have the confidence to take up space without apology (and have the proof to back it up)

After years of body shame, dysphoria, dysmorphia, trauma, or just being stuck in your head…

You’re ready to stop waiting until you feel “ready” and start showing up for the version of you who already deserves to be seen.

Imagine if you could just open your camera and love what you see.

Imagine if taking a spicy selfie felt like coming home to your body, and finally seeing YOU again.

Just like Becca:

Don’t get me wrong…

  • You’ve saved dozens of poses from my TikTok playlists (and maybe even tried a few!)
  • ​You’ve tried standing in front of the mirror whispering affirmations.
  • ​You’ve bought the lingerie, leather harnesses, and kinky accessories.

And sure, those things give you a quick hit of confidence but none if it seems to last very long (and we all know how disappointing that is 😜).

How much time have you been spending…

  • Feeling silly, awkward, or worse-than-before when taking spicy selfies
  • ​Wondering why those affirmations never seem to stick
  • ​Staring at your “flaws” in every photo

This is NOT how you should be spending your time.

 You should be…

 ✨ Taking selfie excitedly 
because you
KNOW you are 
hot just as you are!
😍

✨ Messaging the group chat after every selfie sesh like, “NSFW but omggggg look at me!! 
😍” 

 ✨ Gathering proof that your body is not the problem — the story you’ve been told about it is at me!! 😍” 

But let’s be real.

Watching posing tutorial after posing tutorial hasn’t exactly helped, has it?

Every time you’ve tried to follow what works for “everyone else,” one of these things happens:

  • You freeze up mid-pose and suddenly forget how your body works
  • ​You take the photo, see it, and immediately think “delete it”
  • ​You feel silly or awkward, and can’t even take yourself seriously in the poses
  • ​You spiral, because it didn’t come out the way you imagined — and now you feel worse than before
  • ​Or maybe you can’t even take out your camera to try, because who wants to see that?

Sound familiar?

I’ve helped hundreds of others in your shoes before:

What if I told you there is a way to feel sexy, confident, and connected in your body by pairing spicy selfies with the inner work to actually believe it? It’s time to see yourself differently. And it’s simpler than you think.

Hi, I’m Sam 

(but a lot of people call me Belly!).

(but a lot of people call me Belly!).

I’m a queer, kink, and body inclusive boudoir photographer who has helped hundreds of people just like you to finally LOVE themselves & their bodies over…

AND OVER....

AND OVER....

AND OVER....

AND OVER AGAIN.

And I want to help you do the same with my NEW group coaching program:

I used to only help people like you grow their confidence and fall in love with their bodies in person, through in-studio boudoir sessions. But it got to a point where I realized I couldn’t help everyone.

That’s when I started offering virtual boudoir sessions and more posing resources on social media — but those things leave out so many aspects of the boudoir experience that really help my clients transform their relationship with their body like:

  • The conversations about their body beliefs in-between poses
  • ​The hype and energy that comes from us celebrating every photo
  • ​The creation of a space to be deeply present and compassionate with their bodies

And that’s where the idea for this program was born. 

Week 1: 
Self Love Embodiment

In this first week, you’ll be introduced to my Enemy-to-Self Lover Framework. A powerful approach to rebuilding your relationship with your body through presence, trust, and compassion. 

You’ll uncover where disconnection, self-doubt, and criticism have been running the show — and start creating space for softness, safety, and self-respect to take their place. 

Think of this as foreplay for your self-love journey, tender, powerful, and just the beginning.

Week 2: 
Break & Build Your Beliefs

If taking selfies leaves you spiraling, picking apart your body, or feeling like it only confirms your worst fears. You’re not broken, you’re just stuck in confirmation bias working against you.  In this module, you’ll uncover the beliefs shaping how you see your body — and why they feel so “true.” 

Then together, we will use my Jenga Belief Tower Process to break down your old stories and start stacking new ones that actually support who you’re becoming. 

This is the messy middle that you will clear space for all the AMAZING, “OMG I AM SO HOT” FEELINGS that your spicy selfies will soon create ✨

Week 3:
The Inner Critic vs. The Camera

You know that moment — you take a selfie (or ten), look at it, and immediately feel like crawling out of your skin?  This module gives you the tools to move through those spirals with softness instead of shame. 

You’ll learn why “bad” photos aren’t actually proof of anything, how to spot what’s actually bothering you in the image, and how to care for yourself mid-spiral so you can come back grounded, curious, and ready to try again.

 All without hating your body in the process.

Week 4: 
Embodying YOU

This is where you stop posing for someone else’s gaze and start showing up for your own. 

In this module, you’ll define the version of you that you want to embody in your spicy selfies — whether that’s soft and romantic, bratty and powerful, masc/femme/androgynous, or anything in between. 

Through guided prompts, wardrobe tips, and vibe-building rituals (yes, there’s a playlist involved!), you’ll learn how to dress, pose, and shoot in ways that actually feel like you! Not some version you think you’re supposed to be.✨

Week 5:
The Selfie Sessions

This is the moment you’ve been waiting for:
your first official Spicy Selfie Session 🔥.

Now that you’ve built confidence from the inside out, it’s time to grab your camera, take up space, and celebrate the hell out of your body. 

You’ll ease in with photo foreplay, strike poses (with the help of all the Bonuses!), and end with cozy aftercare (because feelings will come up — and we’re here for all of them). 

This isn’t just about taking selfies. It’s about capturing the version of you that’s finally ready to be seen

Week 6: 
Creating Lasting Confidence

You’ve taken the selfies — now it’s time to turn them into proof. 

In this final module, you’ll revisit the beliefs that came up during your session and the Jenga Belief Tower Process to help you stop criticizing and start admiring yourself instead. 

You’ll learn how to study your selfies like a scientist (and a soft lover), reinforce new beliefs, and plan your next shoot with clarity, confidence, and way less fear. 

This isn’t just about one photo session — it’s about building a self-image that keeps getting stronger with every selfie.

6 Group Coaching Calls (+ Replays)

You’ve taken the selfies — now it’s time to turn them into proof. 

In this final module, you’ll revisit the beliefs that came up during your session and the Jenga Belief Tower Process to help you stop criticizing and start admiring yourself instead. 

You’ll learn how to study your selfies like a scientist (and a soft lover), reinforce new beliefs, and plan your next shoot with clarity, confidence, and way less fear. 

This isn’t just about one photo session — it’s about building a self-image that keeps getting stronger with every selfie.

But in case that’s not enough…

As a Founding Member, you’ll also receive a ton of bonuses like:

Access to the Spicy Selfie School Community Discord (priceless): Whether you are sharing stories, bragging about and praising each other’s spicy selfies, or asking for help while working through exercises — this is a space to find community and support with the other Founding Members 

The Never-Ending Spicy Posing Library (worth $197): My collection of 100+ poses that you can copy, categorized for feminine, masculine, androgynous, dominant, & submissive folks.

Spicy Selfies in Small Spaces (worth $47): A guide for how to take swoon-worthy selfies even if you don’t have a lot of space to work with! I’ll show you how to selfie with just a bed, tiny bathroom, and even just a wall or corner in your room. Plus, cell phone camera tricks to show more of you and make your space look larger than it is.

Spicy Selfie Secrets (worth $47): A complete guide on how to use angles, lighting, and camera distortions to create spicy selfies that highlight all the things you love about yourself, feel affirming, and match the mood you want to create in your selfies!

Gender Affirming Selfies Guide (worth $47): Let’s make sure your spicy selfies feel like you. This guide walks you through how to use angles, lighting, and wardrobe to feel more feminine, masculine, and androgynous — regardless of the body you are in
.
My PERSONAL Everyboudie Lightroom Mobile Presets Pack (worth $47): I use these presets to give every spicy selfie that I take an extra pop of color, mood, and polish. You’ll get them all, plus instructions on how to install and personalize them!

And here’s the thing…

Everything in Spicy Selfie School is powerful.
When you actually give yourself the chance to show up for it.

But if you pass on this…

Where will you be a few months from now?

 A year from now?

Still hiding from your front camera or deleting every photo the second you take it?

Still telling yourself, “I want to feel sexy...but I can’t until…” and letting your shame scripts win?

Still cycling through everything copying pose after pose to buying lingerie you never feel brave enough to wear wondering if maybe you’re just not “meant” to feel confident?

And what happens if you do sayyes to Spicy Selfie School?

Honestly? 

Probably the same thing that’s happened for so many of my past clientsin front of my camera
and with my online resources...
✨ You stop deleting every photo and start collecting selfies that remind you of how hot, confident, and beautiful you are.

✨ You catch yourself smiling at your reflection — not out of ego, but because you finally see yourself and love the parts of you that you were taught to hate.

✨ You learn how to take spicy selfies that feel real, powerful, and like you.

✨ You start believing that you are worthy of love and admiration exactly as you are.

✨ You feel inspired to aggressively love yourself. You join dance classes, take yourself on dates, create boundaries with toxic people in your life, write yourself love letters, hang up your own photos, and put yourself first.

✨ You stop waiting for confidence to show up and start building it one spicy selfie at a time.

✨ You begin dressing like someone who loves their body, even on the days when it’s hard.

✨ You feel safe enough to take up space in your body and in your life — not later, now.

And the best part? 

You’ll look back at the version of you who almost didn’t join…and want to hug them.

Because this work changes everything.

And yeah, you’ll probably post something in the private student group chat like: “I didn’t think I could ever feel sexy…and now I can’t stop taking photos!” and inspire the next person who takes this course and feels just like you. 🖤
What would this experience be worth to you?

I ask because I help people like you in a few different ways.

If you were to come to my studio for a FULL boudoir experience…
my clients excitedly invest $2400-7000 for their photos and confidence transformation.

But you won’t pay that.

After this beta round, Spicy Selfie School will cost $697-997.
You can become a Founding Member for only:
$397
 (or $297 if you agree to share a
 testimonial & before/after selfies!)

One more time, here’s what you get:

The Full Spicy Selfie School Program (worth $697)

SIX group coaching calls with me (worth $1200)

The Never-Ending Spicy Posing Library (worth $197)

Spicy Selfies in Small Spaces (worth $47)

Gender Affirming Selfies Guide (worth $47)

Access to the Spicy Selfie School Community Discord (priceless)

ALL future updates to the program (again, priceless)

At a total value of at least $2,282

But you only pay $397 for all of this if you join now!

I know $397 is an investment...

 And maybe you're wondering if it's really worth it for something like this.
So let me gently ask you, honestly:
If ALL this did was help you like (or maybe even love) ONE part of yourself that you’ve always struggled to love, would that be worth it?

If ALL this did was help you stop waiting until you “feel confident” and start showing up anyway…would that be worth it?

If ALL this did was give you a safe space to unlearn the shame you’ve been carrying and try something bold for you — would it be worth it?

If ALL this did was teach you how to stay in your body instead of spiraling every time you see a picture of yourself, would that be worth it?

If ALL this did was remind you that your body is not the problem — and give you proof that you are sexy and worthy of love — would it be worth it?

$397 to get you back in touch with your body, your power, and your spicy side? 

That’s a powerful yes.

And remember…

Once the 20 spots are filled and the timer runs out, the price nearly DOUBLES and I won’t be opening doors  on this program again for months.

So, what are you waiting for?

Are you ready to confidently take spicy selfies that remind you how much you LOVE yourself and how gorgeous you are?

Still on the fence or have a couple questions?!

I get it, you may still have questions that you NEED answered before joining the program

So I'm here to answer some of those FAQs for you right now (based on the most common questions I get) ⬇⬇

❓ I’m single so I don’t have anyone to show these photos to. Is this still for me?

👉 YES! In fact, my clients tend to feel more confidence, more love for themselves, and more lasting impacts when they take the photos for themselves rather than for a partner. This is about your relationship with your body — not anyone else’s.

❓ I’ve already done your Spicy Selfie Challenge. Is this just another version of that?

👉 Spicy Selfie School is the perfect next step after going through my 28-Day Spicy Selfie Challenge. While the challenge & journal help get the gears spinning and ready to see yourself in a new, more positive light, Spicy Selfie School will dive deeper to unravel your existing negative body beliefs and replace them with new supportive ones, stop mid-selfie spirals, learn how to confidently take up space, and teach you definitively how to take spicy selfies that feel like the hottest, most confident version of you.

❓ If I have already done a boudoir session in the past, will this still help?

👉 Heck yeah! If you feel AT ALL like you still struggle with confidence, loving your body, or finding evidence that you are hot in the day-to-day, then this is for you.

❓ I’m [insert any gender that’s NOT a cis feminine woman here]. Can I join?

👉 This program is for ANY adult 18 and older who is struggling with loving their body and taking spicy selfies — no matter your gender identity or expression. Trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, and cis folks are all celebrated here.

Still wondering if Spicy Selfie School is for you?
This Program is Perfect for You If:
✅ You don’t feel sexy, but you want to — without having to fake confidence or force it

✅ You’ve come a long way with body acceptance, but there's still a part of you that doesn’t feel fully on board…like confidence only goes so far

✅ You’ve tried mirror affirmations, posing tips, cute lingerie, but still feel stuck

✅ You’re curious about exploring softness, power, sensuality, or kink through a lens that actually feels safe and affirming for you

✅ You’re tired of feeling disconnected from your body and want something that actually helps you feel with yourself again
This Program is NOT for You If:
❌ You’re looking for a quick fix to fall in love with your body overnight

❌ You just want a surface-level posing guide with pictures to copy

❌ You already love every part of yourself, and you’re confident AF all the time

❌ You’re not ready look head on at the internalized shame you’ve been carrying
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